How Do I Give a Woman an Orgasm – And Have Her Begging For More?

It’s no secret, if you know how to give a woman an great orgasm, you’ll have her in the palm of your hand. Did you know that many women actually do not have orgasms with their partner, and that very few women have orgasms during intercourse? If you can be the guy that gives them the pure, sexual pleasure they are looking for, you know that you’ll be always on their mind. If you’ve been having relationship problems due to your inability to give your woman the orgasm she deserves, your luck is about to change.

Keys to a Woman’s Orgasm
There are two keys to giving your woman those mind numbing, toe tingling orgasms she loves; you know, the ones that make her whole body quiver and leave her out of breath. The keys to the orgasm doorway are relaxation and proper stimulation. You have to make sure she is completely relaxed and then you have to stimulate her body just right. Only then will she be able to enjoy that which she craves.

She has to be comfortable with own body first. Can she give herself an orgasm? That’s the first step. If she can masturbate to a satisfying orgasm, you should be able to give her one too, if she is receptive and relaxed, and you know how to give her one. If she can’t climax on her own, or if it is very difficult for her, she’ll need to master that before you can jump in and try your hand at the matter, so to speak. Every woman is different, and she needs to know exactly what type of stimulation makes her feel the best, and eventually brings her to orgasm.

If possible, you want to turn her into a masturbation fiend, because the more comfortable she is making herself come, the more comfortable she will be having an orgasm with you. Some women even masturbate multiple times a day, and if yours does that too, you will have  a much easier goal to reach.

Some men think it is a bad thing if their woman masturbates to orgasm frequently, but nothing could be further from the truth. That means she is comfortable with her body and she is intimately acquainted with what is required to have a powerful orgasm. It also means she has grown to love and desire the feeling on a regular basis, something that will make her much more receptive to sex in general, if her partner knows what they are doing.

Great communication is vital. That is another reason why it is so important that she knows and is comfortable with her body. She has to be able to communicate to you what she likes and what she doesn’t. That way you can focus on what makes her feel the best.

To make sure she’s relaxed, you must get her in an environment that she’s comfortable in. You have to set the stage. You will not have to go through this every time you want to make her come. In time she will be able to orgasm much more easily. In the beginning though, you’ll have to go above and beyond to make sure she does, too.

Play relaxing music, maybe give her a glass of wine or two (no more though, scientific studies have determined that being drunk is actually a determent to powerful orgasms), and make sure she is at home in her surroundings.

Have her lie back on the bed in a position where that is comfortable. You’ll want to take your time, this is no race, although there is definitely a finish line. One thing many guys do is dive right in. They immediately start trying to stimulate their woman’s vagina and are upset when she doesn’t enjoy it as much as they are expecting she will. For one thing, there are certain parts of the female anatomy that respond better than others, and eventually that is where you will end up, but all in good time.

You don’t even want to start near her vagina, at first, and when you finally get there, you can’t just attack it. You need to be smooth and touch her just right when you get there. There are many other sensual areas of a woman’s body, such as her neck, breasts, thighs, and even feet. You want to start away from her magic honeypot, and work your way toward it slowly and sensually.  Gently massage and kiss her neck. Get some warm oil or lotion and massage from her neck to her shoulders and gently caress her wonderful breasts. Don’t just start tweaking her nipples, either. Patience, Grasshopper! She will have a powerful orgasm, but you have to give her one as a cherished gift, not force her into it.

Massage her legs, starting at her toes, and slowly working your way up her calves to her thighs. Gently massage her thighs, slowly working your way higher. Gently brush against her vagina’s outer lips as you get to the top of her thighs. After you’ve done this a few times, leave the vagina area and go back to working on her neck, shoulders and breasts for a while. Gently let yourself drift over her stomach, and brush the top of her pubic hair. Slowly stroke down around her inner thighs a few times and let your fingers just gently brush her vaginal area.
If you’re getting the idea this a slow process, you’re right on the money. The massage could easily take a half hour or 45 minutes before you begin to focus your attention on her vaginal area. When you finally do, she should be ready. You’ll notice her vaginal lips should be visibly engorged, her skin should be getting a bit flushed, and she should be starting to get wet.

Only now can you begin to slowly massage her clitoral hood. Don’t touch the clit itself, many women are too sensitive for you to touch the head of their clitoris directly. Use two fingers, or your thumb and forefinger, try a firm, but not hard pressure on the upper end of her clitoral hood. Use slow, circular strokes and let your two fingers go back and forth over her clitoral shaft that is under the hood. If you and her are on the same page, sh should be getting fairly excited after a few minutes of this. Make sure you get feedback from her on weather she wants you to use less or more pressure, or if the speed of your stroke is too slow or too fast. It is much easier if she tells you what makes her feel the best.

This should let you give her a pretty good orgasm, but you probably want to do more than give her a pretty good orgasm, don’t you? You want to giver a true mind bender, the kind of orgasm where she can’t stop shaking for half an hour, the intense orgasms that she can’t stop talking to her friends about, right? (Yes, women talk about that sort of thing, good or bad.)

If that’s the kind of orgasm you want to give your wife or girlfriend, you should know two simple facts:

- Only 25% of women regularly achieve orgasm from traditional vaginal penetration, but 81% of women reach orgasm from cunnilingus?
- 88% of married women say receiving cunnilingus is their preferred and most enjoyable sexual act?
(both statistics from sex research experts Masters and Johnson)

That’s right, you need to learn how to become an expert at orally pleasuring your woman. The problem is that while many men try to please their woman with their tongues, most don’t so it nearly as well as they could be. There are more than 6,000 nerve endings on the clitoris, so if you do it right, WOW! But, do it wrong and she will not be happy. It is a fine art, with certain steps that should be followed, in a precise order, to give your woman the kind of immensely powerful orgasms that truly satisfy her, yet have her begging for more.

So, how do you discover the secrets of going down on your woman like an expert? You learn from one, obviously. You’d look to someone who has been called Oprah’s relationship expert, has written 11 best selling books on sex and love, and has been published in dozens of magazines like Cosmo, Women’s World, Modern Brides, and Men’s Health. He has been also been featured on over 500 radio and TV programs! That expert is Michael Webb, and he can show you exactly how to give her those powerful orgasms she’s only imagined up to now.

Discover the secrets to pleasuring your woman like she’s never been pleasured before. Check out Michael’s site here right now.